
When the Perinatal period overlaps with Perimenopause
If you have had a baby after the age of 35, it is common for our perinatal period to overlap with the beginnings of our perimenopausal years - Yet no one really talks about this. This happened for me, and it floored me, due to a lack of awareness. If you are struggling with any emotional challenges with the overlap of having a baby in your midlife, perimenopause or menopause journey, please do not hesitate to contact me, by clicking the 'Contact me' button below, to find out how I can help you.
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I offer expert emotional & mental health support for:
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Heightened Anxiety due to both being a new Mum and Perimenopause
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Low mood or Depression due to either being a new Mum and/or Perimenopause
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Grief for the loss the body you have known your whole life
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The total lack of a 'bounce back' after pregnancy & labour - recovery from labour truly is a different experience for you, than it is for your younger Mum friends.
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Insomnia & sleep disruptions due to both having a young child and Perimenopause - How to cope
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Brain Fog - How to help yourself stay organised & as clear thinking as possible when your mental load is suddenly bigger than ever and your cognitive capacity is under strain with Perimenopause
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Emergence of potential (perhaps previously-masked) neurodivergence in motherhood and/or Perimenopause
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A loud inner-critical voice heightening at this time - this is common in both early motherhood and in perimenopause, so when they occur together this voice can be incredibly loud
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Relationship changes & challenges - which are very common when two momentous life-transitions co-occur at the same time
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Rage and increased irritability due to both motherhood and/or Perimenopause
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Stress, Overwhelm & Burnout in Motherhood and/or Perimenopause
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Resurfacing of previous/childhood traumas, due to either mothering and/or Perimenopause when you believed you had overcome your traumas in the past.
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Support I cannot offer: ​
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I cannot offer support to anyone in crisis (mental health or otherwise). You are, of course, likely to be struggling emotionally , but you also will need to have currently a safe & stable housing situation, and a safe & stable support network of friends and/or family, to work with me.
I do not offer therapy to people who are currently experiencing any risk of self-harm, or abuse, or violence from others (verbally or physically) - Currently living in safety & relative stability is a prerequisite for undergoing therapy with me.
I am also not able to work with families who are currently receiving support from social services, under either a Child in Need or Child Protection Plan. And I cannot adequately offer the proper support to anyone with a diagnosis of psychosis, personality disorders, eating disorders, or substance misuse as I have very limited experience in these areas. I also do not offer any psychological reports for legal proceedings, e.g. in the case of divorce.
If you are struggling in ways that I cannot support you with, please know that I wholeheartedly wish for you to receive the support you absolutely deserve and need, and I am sincerely sorry that I cannot provide it myself. Please speak to your GP for support & signposting in the first instance, or go to A&E if you are in crisis. You can also phone the National Domestic Abuse Hotline (freephone), if this is relevant to you, on 0808 2000 247.